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  Have YOU tried New Sex™? Dear Arte, How can I make my dick stay really hard when I'm not fully aroused? BayouBlackSnake Dear Bayou, What a fun and excellent question! Not a lot to go on, so first I have to make an assumption: You ARE with a person that you are attracted to, but for whatever reason, you are not fully aroused. This kind of thing happened to me last night, as a matter of fact. Cheryl and I went to bed at around 11:30. She dozed off while we were watching Victor/Victoria on cable. I changed the channel and passed out around midnight. Woke up around 2:45 to shut off the TV. Always seems that when one of us wakes up, so does the other. We shifted around in bed getting comfortable again for a few minutes, then she just started going down on me. I definitely was not aroused when she started. I was half asleep. Tired. Kinda hung over. But then I started appreciating what was going on. The extreme curves of her body... Softness of her skin... Warmth of her lips and tongue... How wet and slobbery she was with my cock. Wasn't long before I was fully erect and reaching under the mattress for my stash of condoms. What happened last night should give you the keys to attaining rock-hard erections on command: Be present in the moment. That's what actors do to seem more alive than regular people. Which is why we want to watch them -- because they ARE living more actively than we are. I've studied acting at some of the top acting studios in Hollywood, and here are some of the tricks I learned about how to be more alive and present in the moment: Use your senses. Look, listen, smell, taste, and feel what's going on. If you focus on the real things going on around you and being done to you, the natural excitement of the moment can register and build in your system. Clear your mind of extraneous chatter. Guys, forget about the box scores for last night's game! And ladies, is the sewing circle gossip really important DURING LOVEMAKING, or might your time be better spent just appreciating the loving touches of your romantic partner? And finally, BREATH! Concentrate on your breath moving in and out of your body. Allow your breath to ground and center you. Feel the oxygen flowing into your mouth and through your system. All of these techniques will help you to be present in the moment. And when you've got a desirable or sexy person you're into making the moves of seduction on you, where else could you possibly want to be? Good luck and let me know how these techniques work for you. Sincerely, Arte Founder, New Sex Institute www.NewSex.org 
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